so many young lesbians date just to have a girlfriend because they think it’s their one ticket to happiness and it turns into toxic relationships based on shallow connections in which theyre shit talking their gf 24/7 but still posting 30 “i love my gf” posts a day on 3 separate social media sites because they think it’s what they’re supposed to do and it’s so sad
it’s okay to just be sometimes. you don’t have to force a relationship that isn’t meant to be just for appearances or social expectations
to add to this: even if you are in a healthy loving relationship you don’t have to post everything you do. i see young lesbians (and did this myself) feeling like they have to compulsively share every part of their relationship because they are so excited and are feeling so much but i just want all young lesbians to know keeping private intimate moments and even cute silly moments between you and your gf can be so much more rewarding and healthy.
the pressure to turn your relationship into a performance in lesbian circles can be overwhelming and honestly it cheapens a lot of romantic experiences
shoutout to all the girls & women in their late teens and twenties who have never been kissed, never dated, never had sex, etc. society loves to make us feel isolated and like we’re doing something wrong or we’re failures.
just know that ur time will come and that life’s not all about that stuff anyway. you do you and don’t let anyone define u by ur experiences or lack thereof. ur amazing, ur beautiful & i love u
this sort of epic trend of people getting obsessed with east asian media like kdramas and anime, move to japan/korea to become an english teacher, pick up the first asian man they see walking the streets, and create the worst genre of youtube videos to plague the platform has gone on for literally. too long
There’s this super annoying bit where they shame Kim Min Hee’s character for wearing more make-up and wearing shorts (um wtf? Hong is just Drake in Hotline Bling basically) but aside from that, I love everything else about this.
